Showing posts with label family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label family. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

Heroes

My Hero 

Growing up we are made to believe that a hero is a knight in shining armor, a giant amongst men, something greater than any human being could ever be…or if they could, they were in past history and no longer live today.  Let me tell you about heroes…

I grew up with two teachers for parents.  They spent their days working to make the next doctors, lawyers, authors, scientist, administrators, councilors, politicians, teachers, police officers, and the list goes on.  Each loved what they did and gave their whole heart to those around them.  Every student was a mission and they believed in each one’s greatness.  Years later I have had strangers walk up during family dinners out, stopped us during walks, cut in during coffee and said, “Mr./Mrs. Church?! You changed my life!”  The stories were always so heartfelt and I was/am so proud!  My parents impact not only my family’s life, but those around them, those who they have touched throughout history, the ones’ who had little hope.  They gave them strength to  persevere.

My parents were and still are selfless, loving, devoted, loyal, persistent, kind, patient, and exude and inner strength which few possess.  They have taught my brother and I what it is to love; honestly, truthfully, and sweetly!  My brother and sister-in-law too, have given me strength and courage that I never dreamt was possible.  When I speak of heroes they are the core of whom I speak. They tell it to me straight and have been at my side when I have needed them most. 

Heroes today don’t have to ride in on a giant horse to save the day. 

A hero can be as close as a parent, brother, family member, or friend who loves you. They give you strength when you believe there is none to be had. They make you believe in your dreams if you have lost sight of them. My family remind me when darkness is closing in that there is light on the other side.  


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Tasha Ina Church
Author of We Are One at the Falling of the Sun
*Twitter: @TashaInaChurch



Thursday, October 27, 2011

Family Ties

Family Ties


Life has a way of sending you lessons, tests, aha moments, and when experiencing these, it is always great to have someone close to you who understands, supports, cheers you on, and at times, is willing to help you get to the other side of these learning segments in your growth process. 

There are people like this in your life all over whether you recognize it or not.  They are your wings, your guiding hands, your shoulder to cry on, they are your family.  These people may be blood, may be close friends, colleagues but they know who you are.  

They understand how you define yourself and family has a lot to do with that construction.  I love my family.  They know the best of me and the worst of me and yet they love all of me-everything that comes with it. No matter how much money you make, awards, or stature, nothing comes close to that kind of love.  I cry with joy at times, so appreciative, so grateful for knowing that I have this type of love in my life-the kind without limits or boarders.  

Know that everyone has the possibility of such love, whether it is a friend, family member, or partner.  We all have the capability to love and be loved.  All we have to do is open ourselves up to it, surrender.  I remember my pity parties getting the better of me when I was younger, "No one truly loves me," I would say and I had created my reality. But it was my parents' words that would quickly change my mind and train of thought.  They would say, "I will always love you dear one." My parents taught me the importance of self-love, a valuable lesson for everyone.    

When going through the several moments in life on your own, remember your family, whoever they are, and know that you have someone who will be there for you during those tough lessons, tests, aha moments and experiences.  Know that you are loved and never, ever alone.         

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Tasha Ina Church


*Twitter: @TashaInaChurch